Dave, the Caregiver’s Caregiver
Hi, I’m Dave Nassaney, Best-Selling author of: It’s My Life Too! Reclaim Your Caregiver Sanity by Learning When To Say “Yes,” and When To Say “No.” My book is designed to teach caregivers who are taking care of their loved ones (due to an illness or disability) how to take care of themselves FIRST. If they don’t learn this, they will likely suffer burnout and become as helpless as the person they are caring for. Statistics prove this: 30% of Caregivers die before their loved one’s do, and 60% become sicker than the one’s they care for and often eventually need a caregiver of their own.
Why am I so qualified to be “The Caregiver’s Caregiver” you might ask? Well, as I have mentioned, I am (and have been) a caregiver to my beautiful wife, Charlene, since 1996, when she suffered a massive stroke for no apparent reason. As a result, she lost her speech and has not spoken in sentences since. She is also paralyzed on the right side of her body.
After a two year grieving period for both of us, I realized that there are so many other caregivers out there feeling lost and alone and in a lot of pain. I wanted to help ease their pain. I don’t want them to give up, like I almost gave up.
That’s why I became Dave, The Caregiver’s Caregiver! I now host a popular iTunes podcast called, “The Caregiver’s Caregiver Radio Show.” I’m also a best-selling author to my 3rd book, “It’s My Life Too! Reclaim Your Caregiver Sanity”.
We were on the Times Square Jumbotron in NYC, and I have spoken at the University of Hawaii, the Harvard Faculty Club with Suzanne Somers, the Nasdaq Market site in New York, the Harvard Club in Boston & New York City, and have also appeared on 24 TV network morning shows, from Hawaii to Washington DC, as well as many caregiver events, a medical conference, support groups, hospitals, churches, and places people are gathered to learn more about caregiving.
Caregivers are always encouraged by my message of putting their needs first, so they can better meet the needs of their loved-ones, as I share my all-important message, “How To Prevent Your Loved One’s Illness or Disease from Actually Killing YOU!”
Please take a moment now and check out my iTunes podcast, The Caregiver’s Caregiver Radio Show, on Wednesdays at noon, PST. The mission of my Radio Show is to help Caregivers overcome adversity, the grief process, and burnout — as well as just having a place to rest, relax & recharge their batteries.
You will find our radio show interviews, video trailers, and articles on this website an essential and helpful aspect of your support. Thank you for visiting. Continue to check out all that we have to offer caregivers and those who are grieving on this informative website, especially the very affordable membership side of it, and get a FREE COACHING CALL with your paid life-time membership for a limited time.. Thanks again!
Meet The Amazing Charlene
For those of you who have not had the privilege of meeting the amazing, “Queen Charlene,” here is a 7-minute introduction video. Knowing her will change your life forever. You have been warned. LOL
She now makes us normal people look like whiners and complainers. She continues to do almost everything she did before her stroke, but in essence, she does it with one arm and one leg tied behind her back, and she might as well have duct tape over her mouth too, since she cannot speak, yet she does all of this with her amazing positive attitude.
Having to deal with the grief process was not easy for her, or her loved ones. There was a lot of anger, directed mostly at the ones who loved her, then depression…then finally, acceptance. She lost everything that was dear to her; her big, beautiful home, her new car, her relationship with her grand-daughter, and most of her friends. Since 1998, she began to rekindle her faith in God that He is, and has always been in control of her situation.
She is now fully comfortable with the idea of why God would allow such an experience in her life, since she acknowledges that much good has come about from it. She has a different, more wonderful perspective on things now than she once did. Today, she is happy, and accepting of her situation, and is OK if she never regains the use of her limbs and speech again. Her future and purpose are in God’s hands, and is excited to be a part of His Master Plan to help people through this.
A Cross Between Martha Stewart & Wonder Woman
Charlene’s story is truly amazing, and very encouraging to everyone. All who meet her instantly fall in love with her. She has been described as a cross between Martha Stewart and Wonder Woman before her stroke, and it is not uncommon for some who meet her to cry — not tears of pity — but tears of joy and amazement for her attitude and ability despite her disability. Her way of communicating without words is very interesting and very entertaining to experience.
She is also a woman of great faith. At times, we all wonder how we would respond, if a similar circumstance were to happen to us, or to one of our family. She has been non-verbal and paralyzed on one side since September, 1996 as a result of an unexpected, and unexplained stroke.
You truly will be amazed at Charlene’s great positive attitude, which tends to keep our own problems in their proper perspective. Charlene’s story is now an encouraging testimony that inspires anyone who hears it. Our book, “One Arm One Leg IOO Words” is available in paperback and e-book. Order your copy now by visiting the Books – Articles page of this website.
The American Stroke Association is excited about the prospects of her story getting out to the masses as an educational tool and an encouraging testimony. Check out my latest article about “Surviving with a Positive Attitude” in the January/February issue of Stroke Connection Magazine.
About Our Faith
Join David Nassaney as he is interviewed on the Internationally broadcast program, “Grace & Hope” on the Alkezara Television Network as he shares his story of how they overcame very difficult circumstances in their lives through faith in God. (30 min.)